Farewell Jordan - farewell Najah
(Pictures you can find in my picassa album and in the dutch version)
If the highlights of my cycling trip are the people I may meet, then the lows are the moments of saying goodbye. Every time that you meet great people there always comes a moment the I have to say goodbye as the tour goes towards Belgium. So this is also true for Jordan.
I have been fortunate to meet Najah in Jordan. We were both waiting for someone at the airport in Amman. She waiting for her mother and I for the Kwink. We were both in a good mood.
Sometimes you meet people and you know immediatly you would like each other. This was such a moment. Only in the middle east, speaking to a woman is not so evident. She was there with her family and at one point they are all staring at me and gossiping ... I was clearly the subject ... Ppfff, habbits in the Middle East ... it better to talk to her. Najah is a divorced mother of three children and teaches at the university of Irbid, which is immediately noticeable is her smile and optimism. Her mother and Kwink are arriving ... we decide to stay in touch. Maybe after my bicycle adventure in Jordan.
On the way to Amman, I invite her for an evening out with three of us, but unfortunately it does not fit for her. The day that Kwink leaves I meet her at the evening in downtown Amman. Meanwhile, it is almost my home town and she had never been there. So I was able to guide her the world upside down, if you're having fun time flies, even now. She invites me for a homemade mansaf, something I can not resist. Food and in good company ... here are my weaknesses. I learn from her a little more about life in the Middle East. And I also immediately see and feel her frustrations and fears as a woman in the middle east. Needless to say, that moves me. I had already few conversations with men and was always critical at this point, role of the women in their culture. For the men it was always easy to explain it to me ... of course ... It is easy to talk from their standpoint. Talking to Najah I feel at some point even a little guilty when I'm very enthousiastic about my experiences ... my cycling trip, freedom, float on the Dead Sea, ... all things that she as a woman in the Middle East can only dream of. I must then remember a discussion I've ever had with my sister on this subject. Discussions within the family Schildermans can be severe and it was such one ... Nele I think you were right at that time, maybe a little late, but now I can say that you were right.
The mansaf tastes delicious ... eating with the hands it is not a real succes, fortunately, there are no pictures of it .... more regrettable is that there are also no pictures of the belly dancing that Najah and her cousin do for me. Sisha smoking after dinner and dancing. The afternoon could not finish better.
The next day I would go to the border. Najah provides me with a whole load of supplies for my journey through Syria. She worries. the whole situation in Syria at that time is also rather violent, but I do not want to hear it, I have a bicycle trip to accomplish. Najah insists that she bringt me the next morning to the border. She goes every morning to Irbid for her work and the children go to school there. I don't protest, not even like ... postponement of a painful farewell.
That morning they pick me up at my hotel. Bike and luggage in the car. No effort too much to bring me to the border. In Belgium, you are fined if you eat a sandwich behind while driving, Najah manages it to prepare a whole breakfast behind the wheel, and sometimes it gives hilarious moments, it's a car ride not for people suffering their haert.
Farewell at the border for the first time. but as already known ... not for the last time. I drive on the Jordanian border in the pouring rain. At the first checkpoint of Syria I'm invited to sit in the building. I sit down on a bed, between the machine guns and smoke Sisha with the border guards ... situation in Syria is of course safe, not a cloud in the sky ... that's the story they tell me. The media don't tell the truth is the continuation of their story. When the rain stops, I continu to the third and final checkpoint before I'll be in Syria. I don't have to tell how great was my surprise when I am told that I could not go into Syria because of my own safety. There must be something serious happened between checkpoint 1 and 3.
Actually I do not even mind having to go back to Jordan. Waiting for my ride back to Amman I check if there are other possibilities to go from Jordan to Turkey, there are not real ones. I am still waiting on a promised confirmation from Israel for a ferry to Turkey. The confirmation of the Syrian Ministry of Tourism that there is no problem to enter the country is much faster.
It's nice to be welcomed by Najah and her children: Zain, and Aboud Hamoud. I show them the Rainbow Street in Amman. The oldest street in Amman which is beautifully renovated and now pretty much defines the trendy neighborhood of Amman.
I'll stay two more days in Amman ... training on the sportfields of Amman , saying farewell to Saad, a glass of Freshness in the cafe RSCN (Royal Society of the Conservation of Nature) with Najah ... I begin to feel at home in Amman.
Another move of a bike and luggage to the border with Syria. But now saying goodbye is even much harder. I'm glad I got to know Najah. I have a lot to learn from her. I admire especially her optimism and her ability to put things into perspective and in addition she is also a beautiful appearance.
This time the transition of the border is more formally, no sisha and wild tales of border guards ... but it is a success. I arrived in Syria. I still keep in touch with Najah. Two days after my departure, she has a heavy traffic accident. Slipping of the car as a result of oil on the road. Car a few times over the head. I know of the accident in Syria, but only very occasionally get news. My whole time in Syria, I am more concerned about her condition, then about the situation in Syria. That makes that in Syria for the first time during my trave I felt powerless and alone, Moker meets Rafke a few times in the Syrian desert. Najah is currently still recovering. She will recover, that is for sure, but it will take time. I consider to visit her from Turkey, that's the least I can do and she can use any support. I wish her all the very best.
Moker (sledgehammer)
Syria
Syria was probably the country which I would like to see the most of all the countries on my travel precisely because the contrast between the reputation the country has always had and what you hear from eyewitnesses about the country ... In that respect, the 'status' of Syria is very similar to that of Iran, indeed even one of the countries high on my list! The reputation is that of a Muslim state, embroiled in deep conflict with Israel ... much more remains to be known, but this is enough for most to put the country in the box 'to avoid' . If you speak people who have been, you always hear two things: an overwhelming hospitality and a rich historical past.
The moment I have visited Syria is perhaps a historical moment, given the current events that afflict the country. Despite these events, I have yet to experience the famous Syrian hospitality. And also I can confirm that the country has a priceless collection of historic buildings and entire cities. Damascus alone is worth a visit to Syria.
The reputation of the country. The country is at war with Israel, that is absolutely true. In any case a cold war. The whole question of the Middle East is obviously very complicated, but you can not deny that some 60 years ago, an area with a surface equal to 2 / 3 that of Belgium was occupied by a new state and the indigenous population is asked to leave, freedom of choice was not much there. It is obvious that the immediate neighbors Syria and Jordan are the countries who encounter most problems with this new situation. Jordan has over the years willy nilly adapted at the new situation, Syria has not yet done. So it is true that Syria still lives on hostile terms with Israel, but it actually has no direct concequenties for life in Syria.
Syria a Muslim State. It's not quite right. It is obviously a predominantly Muslim country, but there is freedom of religion and a significant minority of Christians are living in Syria in harmony with the Islamists. There is a Christian district in Damascus. Once in the Christion district, it's completely different with the rest of the city. Costumes of the women, churches instead of mosques. Even in small villages in the countryside you see the occasional church. So yes, the religion is predominantly Islamic, but the state is not ruled by religion. And yes, religion is much more important in Syria, more generally, in the Middle East than with us, but this is not just for Muslims but also Christians. To our current standards, it all seems a bit exaggerated.
What makes it so that Syria is in the news? I have tried to find out as far as possible during my 10 days in the country. It's too short to know the whole truth, but at least I have some impressions. It is not always so simple if only that I do not speak Arabic. But I have learned a few things. Syria is ruled by President Bashar al-Assad, as you travel through the country you can not miss his photos.
And even on pictures of him he looks like not friendly. It's promising. Every seven years there are presidential elections, but the last time there was surprisingly no rival. The Syrian army is actually a joke when you compare it with the powerful neighbor Israel. If you are as a country at war live with your neighbor than I would make sure that your military system keep pace with that of the enemy. This is clearly not the case and gives me the feeling that the army is there above all to keep its own people under control. What is very good in Syria and also in Jordan is the intelligence service. The intelligence services in these countries are among the best in the world in terms of information gathering, this is obviously at the expense of some privacy. Moreover, Syria retains an extensive network of police forces. There would have been 7 different secret police forces. These are of course no official data, so don't blame me when it where 5 or 9 but what I experienced it myself is that everyone, usually not in uniform can ask for your passport. And uniform or not it was me quickly clear that they were all armed ... I always asked simply whether they were police when they asked my passport and then they had to confirm. The entire state system is made to keep the population under control, added to that, the economy is heavily corrupt. You can create your own business, as long as you're not big, there is no problem, but if you come in the wake of the 'big' players, political friends of the top, you will encounter every possible opponent until you get back in your line. The president and his followers are Alawite, a minority in Syria. In order to ensure its control over the people, there is also the "emergency law". Supposedly because of terrorist threats, the police can arrest and detend everyone without any form of process. There would exist many underground prisons in Syria, where people are imprisoned and tortured. The cause, or one of the causes of the current unrest is the arrest of a dozen young people (teenagers). As a result of the earlier events in Egypt, they called for freedom in the street of Deraa. The kids were arrested early this year and immediately imprisoned. Under pressure from the population they are released but rarara ... They had lost their fingernails. I do not know what the rest what was done with them, but it may not have been nice. Since then, the bomb in Syria began to burst. Typically in this region is that the people come together on Friday for Friday prayers, like our (previous) Sunday service. Then there is a sermon, and after that, when the people are all together, the protest against the government and the call for freedom are the most obvious. The recent speeches of the president didn't have much of result, the trust has long been harmed, he completely lost his authority. I have only seen a few protests here and there and some burning tires.
I have them for my own safety also avoided. What I really have experienced is the huge presence of police and army. At the most crazy and unexpected moments you are asked where you are going or you are said that you better move on. The army has installed barricades on every road sometimes clearly visible, sometimes completely camouflaged, so that you only see them when you passed them, an entire battalion lying hidden in the shoulder. All with machine guns at the ready, bayonet on the rifle, snipers in the shoulders and on the roofs ... quite impressive when you pass on your bike. It is the first time I've really felt an aversion to the military. Syria's army is therefore only against its own people, and I do not understand that as a major power they do not revolt against the leadership. If they continue in this way, these men will be hated enormously by there own people in the future?? I can not say I've had any unsafe feeling during my trip, but I had a constant feeling of unease over me, it just felt not comfortable. The feeling of freedom is a tremendous luxury we have in Europe. I can not do anything else than wishing the people in Syria every success in their struggle for more freedom and civil rights. If there is a people that it deserves, then they will.
After my second attempt I drive into Syria via the motorway. Cycling on the hard shoulder is permitted and is a good road, were it not that it is just more fun with the bike onsmaller roads. I turn off the first exit towards Deal, where I will follow the old route to Damascus. I do not have Syrian money either, so what remained first is changing Jordanian Dinar for Syrian pounds. In Deal, the first one I met helped me immediately further. A little later I'm in the shop of Koutieba, drink a cola and explain what my plans are. It's Thursday afternoon and Koutieba rather not like me to be in Damascus on Friday morning. By the way we come to the conclusion that I have not seen Bosra, not far from him and that is a must. We soon share a common frustration ... not speaking the others language . I intend that I am going to learn Arabic. Promises ... Meanwhile, Ameen joined us, an English teacher, that makes the conversation a lot easier, also Koutieba's father joined us in the shop. My schedule for that day is made. Koetieba, Ameen and I leave with the car to Bosra to visit the old site .... No way I pay something as a guest. Jordan and Syria, two neighbors, but once you cross the border you feel that you are entering a different country ... if it was only by the absolute absence of motorcycles in Jordan and the abundance of them in Syria. It also immediately makes the streets much more exuberant. The old site of Bosra is great and in an unimaginable good state.
After our trip one hour of sleep in the cool living room of Koutieba's home on the cushions, typically in a square along the walls, on the carpet. What a luxery such an afternoon nap. If I learn anything this year it is enjoying the quiet moments I get. Freshen up and then I am given the choice, another walk before dinner or a trip on the motor with Koutieba through Deal ... hahaha, choice is quickly made. A little later I'm sitting on the backseat of the motorcycle and cruising through Deal. Personally, I would speed much faster, but as a passenger I can find nothing wrong in Koutieba's quiet ride. Another striking difference with Jordan is the street life. In Jordan, I got used to almost empty streets at night, or just people who were going from one to another place. Not so in Syria. Here, life is much more on the streets. People sitting around fires to grill meat, drink tea together, sitting in front of their houses just to gossip, ... it gives a more vivid and exuberant street than I was used to until now.
Back home there is a typical Syrian meal. Humus, foul, babaganousch, fresh salads, yogurt and bread. And a glass of Ayran to complete. The food in the Middle East is quite different from our food, but definitely recommended. When they asked me at dinner what would be great business that could score in Europe, I answer that a good restaurant with typical and good food from this region could be a hit in Europe where people are always looking for a unique and excellent restaurant. What we know in Europe are the kebab and shawarma restaurants, but believe me, what you will eat here is a thousand times better than what we are accustomed.
Another idea that I had, and probably others with me, is that Syria is one big desert. False, when I was driving through Deraa, indeed the region quite recently in the news, I'm surprised by the green spaces, filled with grain, fruit and vegetables. Also the northern region around the Euphrates, I'll later discover, is a green oasis. The grain in Syria appears to be of an exceptional quality and apparently, some Italian pasta can only be made with flour from Syrian. It is sometimes a crazy sight if you pass on the bike these big machines for grain cutting parked in the middle of the desert, often you pass a little further a green landscape.
Koutieba the evening is filled with talking, with the help of Ameen it is possible to talk about more than just about: "where I come from", "where I go", "whether I'm married" and "no, how is that possible?", "How old I have already got", "33 years, and still not married? " .... after a while you start to doubt yourself ... And there is much more to tell when people from 2 different cultures meet. There are many more questions than just the first encounter questions ... time flies that evening.
The next day, Friday, and perhaps a decisive day for Syria. The entire weekend is also a key moment. Friday is the day anyway where people gather at the mosque, so this would again give a violent situation. Also Sunday is an important day, Syria celebrates than its independence from France. I hear that this weekend could be a turning point, the situation can calm down and the Syrians will find a peaceful solution or the country expires in a bloody civil war. The family wants me not to leave in the morning for Damascus. It is better to wait until around noon and hear how the situation develops before I crawl on the bike. I wisely follow their counsel. I love adventure, but I'm not looking for problems
By noon, the country still seems quiet. People are ready for the noon prayer at 13 PM, but no mass movement, I get on the bike ... towards Damascus a little 100 km.
Not immediately, but after a while it is very clear ... I drive over an almost empty road to Damascus, through green fields, olive groves, nearly empty villages, barren stretches of sand and always the snowy hills of Lebanon in my view. As a cyclist an empty road would be a relief, but now it feels weird ... the only constant on the road to Damascus, the military checkpoints. Tanks, snipers, barricades, machine guns with bayonet, ... I see it all on my road to Damascus. At 14 PM, passing a few villages, I see on a parallel road a few parades and burning tires in the distance ... The moment of truth?
I arrive in Damascus, and here it is quiet, like an ordinary Friday (compare with our Sunday). Arriving in Damascus is very nice. It feels like a mix of Paris and Berlin. The broad avenues of Berlin and the cozy atmosphere of some neighborhoods in Paris. Yellow taxis, all of those old French bikes, trees along the avenues. This city is in no way comparable to Amman in Jordan. This is a city with which you immediately fall in love. And I'm still in the suburbs ... wait until I see the true center.
I ride further into the center and see in front of me pickup with three Westerners in the back of the truck. At a crossroads, I ask them for a good and not too expensive hotel, but their answer disappears in the accelerating traffic.
A few intersections later, near the acces of the gigantic indoor souk of Damascus, I see them again. They are waiting for me and ask me if I like to drink a beer with them. Is this a question. I've just met Manu, Steffi and Jesse. Manu and Steffi, a Swiss couple, living in a house in the old city of Damascus. I walk with them to their home through the covered souk, and the narrow alleys ... This city is one of the oldest cities, with the longest continuous Occupancy in the world ... and it's exactly that atmosphere that lives here. When I enter their house, I can only say 'wow' ... forget all the expensive villas and lofts ... these houses are just wonderful (but also expensive). Damascus is in that way a strange city, food costs nearly next to nothing but the houses are really expensive, caused by the immigration of rich Iraqees after the last Iraq war. A little later I am on top of their roof and look out over the old city of Damascus with the old Mosque as an eye catcher. A Syrian beer makes the picture complete.
"You can sleep here with us" ... "Yes, would be a pleasure" ... "We can make a room free for you" ... "No need, I do not want to bother, I'll sleep on the roof '... And so happened that the rooftop garden is my exclusive bedroom for the next three nights. Now I understand what people mean when they say that I'm a lucky bastard.
Unfortunately, I got sick that night. The food can not be the reason, I haven't eaten anything special the day before, the combination of effort, sun, and a fez beers. I suspected it already for some time and it is always been reconfirmed, I just can not support any beer anymore ... Damn ... not good for a Belgian guy.
Most of the first day I spend in bed, in the afternoon I explore the city a little bit. Jeremy and Maarten maintain our 'London-Weekend'-tradition. Unfortunately I can not be there this time, there are sacrifices to make ... But we succeed in a skype reunion. The quality of the line is weak and I feel also weak, but it is still great fun to hear the two comrades, next time I am back in, men.
A day later and feeling better again, I explore the city by bike. Damascus is situated at the foot of a mountain, and that invites to climb up the hill. Through the narrow streets in the suburbs I find my way up. These suburbs are not to compare of suburbs of other large cities, where you sometimes do not really feel comfortable. Its not in Damascus ... narrow streets, cobblestones, craft shops and friendly, helpful people. The higher I go, the steeper the narrow roads and finally I have to get off the bike because it is really impossible to cycle up anymore and a bit further I'm carrying my bike upstairs. Once up, I have a beautiful view over the city ... it's not the top of the mountain, who in Syria has the ultimate overview, exactly ... the army. The top of the mountain is military domain and inaccessible for normal people.
I'm going down via the road that brings me via the north to downtown Damascus. I'm looking for a Syrian SIM card. My Jordanian number does not work anymore, my account balance reached zero. Two days ago I heared from Najah that she was involved in an heavy car accident, and since then I have not heard from her, I am worried. As a foreigner getting a Syrian SIM card is not so evident, and later I also discovered that once a SIM card, using the phone is not always obvious. The Syrian government shuts down the phone traffic any moment they like. My search is successful, but it will take some time before I hear any news from Najah. I continue to explore the town, visit the Azm Palace, walk through the Souk and the surrounding streets ...
In the evening the three of us eat in the center. We walk through the old city, alongside the river that crosses the city, to the Christian district for an aperitif and a Sisha. Here you can sit on the terrace and order a beer or a glass of wine, I stuck on cola at the moment. On the way we are approached by two local beauties to ask them whether we like to be on a picture with them ... That this should happen to me. I ask Steffi and Manu if this happens regulary, it's for them also the first time.
The food was again a hit. Today is Sunday. The president has kept his speech. The reactions seems to be neutral. There are meetings have been held in Douma and there is a procession toward Damascus. The security forces remain calm and for the change they didn't fire on the demonstrators. The feared escalation of violence remains, at least for that weekend off. Would it be possible that the situation in Syria calmes down? Manu and I visit a Hammam so that I can get on the bike again next day, scrubbed clean.
I will drive from Damascus direction Douma. I'm not chosing the difficult cities, I try to avoid the motorway, that is why I pass Douma. And actually I want to avoid the most violently city in the country, namely Homs. From Douma I go direction Quaranteyn and further through Deir Mar Mussa, a monastery in the mountains. At the last moment before I left Damascus, I got this tip from Steffi. It would certainly be worth a visit.
The landscape is changing. The region of Douma is a dirty, dusty industrial region, along the road are all steel and concrete workshops. Dust and exhaust determine the air quality here. Once I get passed Douma, I'm in the desert. Heat, drought and dust ... All day I drive through a sandy plain on which there is the whole time a dust mist.
It is here that I sit dozn, tired and exhausted, at an abandoned shed. Recover a little bit and eat a piece of fruit. Not 5 minutes later, a motorcycle stops next to me ... whence comes it so suddenly ...? I think it is just a curious passer-by ... and tired as I am, this is not what I'm waiting for at this moment. He asks me where I go and tells me which way I have to go. Tired and not in the mood for a conversation I let him understand that I know the way and just want to rest ... he answers that I could better leave. My mind is not getting any better, and I'm thinking about a clear response which would let him feel that I am not in the mood to be ordered, when he turns his back and I see his gun in his belt. The notorious security service. At this moment I realise that here in this country they always keep an eye on you, even if you think you're alone on the road in the desert ... I don't think anymore about refusing him and follow the advice of my 'friend' and get back on the bike ... Up towards Deir Mar Mussa.
The monastery is in the mountains, and my fears are confirmed. The last kilometers are uphill ... these are slow and endless kilometers. Eventually I reach my destination and there is an endless stairs, carved into the rocks, to the monastery waiting for me. I lock the bike at the foot of the hill. I cannot else than carrying the bags upstairs ... I maybe travel compact, when I have to carry everything at once, it's damned heavy and the stairs make it even worse. Each curve in the stone steps is a goal to reach and where I take a break. When I'm halfway through and I get offered help, my pride has disappeared so far that I don't think anymore about refusing the assistance. I am secretly pleased when I see one of my two helpers carrying only one of my four bags and struggling to get upstairs.
The monastery at the top is a nice reward for the pilgrimage to get there. I get a bed in a cave. Because it is quiet I have the whole room just for me. A fresh shower washes off the sweat, dirt and tiredness. I'm ready to explore this building. Through a door in the rocks, no more than one meter high, I can get in the monastery itself. Here I find a church, a library in the rocks, and a courtyard with a splendid view over the valley. Higher up is second monastery on which I have a beautiful view, but to which guests have no access.
The stay in the monastery is free of charge, but a free financial contribution or help in the the monastry is highly appreciated. I decide take the dish wash on my account. I would also like helping with the still ongoing building process, but fot that I will return and then for a slightly longer time. At 19 PM there is a reflective service, during which texts are read from the Bible and songs are sung. The atmosphere is cozy and warm. The language is Arabic, but it is indeed a Christian monastery, for us almost a Contradiction in terms, here this is the most normal thing in the world. The service lasts for 2 hours and for me, as a tired cyclist the perfect opportunity to relax. I do not believe, but I take this opportunity to light a candle for Najah, under the motto "if it doesn't help, anyway it wouldn't hurt". Earlier today I got her sister at the phone and heard she is in a bad state and is sleeping all day. So she can use all the help.
After the food is served and we eat all together and I learn to know the people who live in and visit this monastry. A strange mix of all different people. A few young students in Arabic language, an English lady of middle age, a Venezuelan trying to find his luck in the Middle East, Rama a young woman from Damascus that spend a lot of her time here, a French diplomat who now and then comes to this place to find rest and peace ... I find it all pretty, but I have also to say that with my sober look at faith and religion, I miss the feeling to fully live and feel this way of live. For me it's something too floaty and exaggerated. Time for the night ... Meanwhile very tired I am glad I can go to my cave. As soon as I hit the pillow I'm gone for a long and quiet night ... The morning like I planned I do the dishes, just help to prepare for lunch and than leave on the bike to my next monastery.
Indeed, my next monastery. Hilda, the English lady who stayed also in Deir March Mussa, told me that a little further, towards Palmyra there is another monastry what is also worth a visit. The monastery of Deir Mar Elian is situated next to the town of Al Quarytayn. Since I am left a bit late today it will be a slightly shorter day, but still cycling in the desert is already challenging enough. The road ahead is endless, it's cloudy and that makes the day much more bearable than the day before. If you assume the day will be easy, prepare you for the opposite. Like today. I almost thought I arrived when I decided to stay for a while with a family that makes tiles.
When I asked them the way to a nearby restaurant, there is no way that I would go to a restaurant, I'll eat with them and then I can go further to the monastery. The concept of hunger is clearly different for them as for me, it lasts and lasts before there is any food, and I can now eat the cushions. I let them know that I'am really leaving now. I'm tired and hungry, not a condition that has to last for too long otherwise my mind get confused, I have had the experience already what this situation does with my mood, it's best to avoid. A few minutes later there is food on the table. Bread, olives, cheese and stuffed eggplant. Nice, but one important lesson I learned. If you're hungry, find a restaurant. You have your food faster and you can order a genteel meat dish. Despite my vegetarian past, after one day cycling I can not fill my stomach with a few olives, a piece of bread and some vegetables. Then at least one sheep or a chicken has to be grilled. Remember that my stomach is get used to a dish of 20 meatballs. Meanwhile, it begins to get dark and I am still looking for my monastery. In my hurry I drive kilometers too far, and the fatigue hits me hard. Eventually, a truck drive past, with a family inside. The father shows me the way, and I should hold myself to the truck until we get there, to the great amusement of the rest of the family. By the time we get there I can also tell them what I do as a Belgian in Syria at this time and then even on a bike. I arrive at the monastry together with Father Jacques and Jens and feel welcome immediately. Jacaues and John speak French and English and I'm delighted that ze can chat that evening in a common language.
After a refreshing night I leave early in the morning towards Palmyra. I will ride all day through the desert. I drive first to Qasr Al Hair Al Gharbi a remnant of an old desert castle. In the middle of the desert, close to a well an some grass I find the remains of the once immense edifice.
I encounter four Syrians who've just eaten their lunch. When I tell them I go through the desert Tiyas, they declare me crazy and I see them thinking I had a stroke of the Sun.
I eat my lunch in the shade of a building in the green, surrounded by the sandy and stony plains. Cool down a little bit an half an hour of recovery before hitting the road again. The electrical wires will be my guide through the this desert for the coming 20 km.
First I follow a dirt track and the electrical wires, but after a few kilometers there remain only the electrical wires and I cross every now and then a dirt track.
Ninety minutes later I see in the distance a flock of sheep on some sparse grass and a little further away two bedouin tents. I'll ask them the way, to have a confirmation that I'm still following the right direction. A cyclist in the desert ... it is clear that they do not see it every day passing by. Of course I have to sit in the tent and I get tea, dates and yogurt offered.
The conversation is difficult. The men are busy with cleaning mushrooms and filling a big pot with them. Indeed mushrooms in the desert, I had never expected. And it looks damn good. The expectation is that I stay for the lunch, but this time I refuse, I really need my time, I want to be tonight in Palmyra.
I continue my trip the pylons and not much later the town looms Tiyas and I can follow the tarred road further towards Palmyra. Late in the afternoon and I still have at least 60 km to go. I ride under a scorching sun throughout a large sandbox with here and there a village and supprisingly enough, here and there a green field.
If 150 km is on my counter I stand on the hill, ready to descend to Palmyra. There is clearly a lack of tourists in the town that lives on tourism. They come up the hill to offer me a stay. A cheap night in a bedoin tent is my choice. I stay at 100 meters from the historic site. After rinsing of the sand and dirt I eat a great Mansaf. I'm ready for the night.
The next day I walk around the Roman site. Another huge collection of old buildings, remnants of pillars, an amphitheater, temples, ancient Roman roads, ... it's just unbelievable what you find in this region from ancient times.
After one day I have enough of Palmyra. I want to move on and back on the bike. My time in Syria is limited, visa for 15 days and the messages I'm receiving here and there are not so encouraging.
My second morning in the bedoïn tent I am woken by the rain. Rain in the desert ... I set my departure until after the rain. Another day through the desert. It may sound boring, but the desert has something special, it is an amazing landscape and I can enjoy it. I also enjoy the moments I just sit on the bike, music in my ears, and pedalling ... And so I go hours and hours, today against the wind ... It's a struggle. The weather remains dark and unpredictable throughout the day. When I am in the last town for that day, As Sukhnah, I get the council not to travel at night because of armed groups which could be active at night ... An hour later in the middle of the desert, there is a fierce wind and the first big drops begin to fall. It is 18 PM and I decide right away to set up my tent. By the time I've actually unpacked my tent, the rain is pouring and there's a fierce storm raised. I need all my outdoor experience to put up my tent properly. Moments later I'm sitting in my tent, covered with mud, waiting when the rain stops. I ain't seen nothing yet. It clears up and I use this occasion to properly secure the tent and preparing food. After dinner and have cleaned up everything I crawl into my sleeping bag. An hour or so later I wake up from light flashes. First I think that it is caused by the movement of my outer tent, but when I look outside I see the sky above me is still completely open, but further away it is all pitch black and I see one lightning bolt after another come down. I am not on my ease. A half hour later the sky above me also changed into black ... and now the lightnings come closer very fast. A tent in a desert plain, I do not believe that it is the best choice is to seek protection against these lightnings. It is currently still very dry. I decide that the best to do is leaving my tent and I lay down into a ditch a little further, to avoid to be the highest point in the landscape. When it starts to rain again I choose for my tent. I lie awake another hour scared and hoping that each successive lightning is also just around the tent ... I wonder where those armed groups are when you need them ... Eventually stops the storm, or am I so tired ... I do not know what was first ... in any case I fall asleep and when I shortly wake up a few hours later everything is quiet again. The next morning I get up under a blazing sun. The desert, it can be fascinating.
Back on the bike towards Rusafa, yet another ruin in the desert and the end of this day trip. This day is nice ... I enjoy the bike, fighting the wind ... iPod and pedalling. When I am almost in Rusafa a group of tea-drinking men invites me for tea, and soon I have also an invitation for the night. The previous night still fresh in memory, I doubt not too long for this second invitation. I leave the panniers at my hosts house and continue a few kilometers on the bike to the ruin of Rusafa. Another impressive building. Particularly striking are the vast underground cellars that were used previously as a water reservoirs for the people of the fortified city.
Back to my family I get offered a bucket of water water to wash myself in the living room. Quick cleaning the floor afterwards and the bathroom ik switched again into a living room. The whole family is together, this time also the wife and daughters. That's the first time in Syria that men and woman are sitting together. Normally everything is quite strictly separated. The conversation does not go as easy, again because of that damn language barrier, the girls speak a little English, but that's really a little bit. And my knowledge of Arabic is in recent weeks also only little increased. If later in the evening the time is there for taking some pictures, then suddenly the paternal protectionism of his wife and daughters comes back. Photos are taken only from men. Well ... the daughters clearly prefer otherwise, and so I am ... but the host decides ... Time flies, and soon it's time to sleep.
Approaching the border with Turkey. I drive today to Qalat Jabar, the remains of an old ruined fortress that lies on the banks of the Euphrates. I drive by Ath Thawrah, a pleasant town where I do want to stay overnight. At the entrance of the city a gang of youths accompagnies me with their bikes and loud horns. At least I don't have to ask for space on the road. They bring me to the only hotel in the city, but that appears to be full. It is noon and the owner offers me a meal, then at least I didn't drove not for nothing to his hotel.
After lunch I cross the Euphrates via the enormous dam. The water of the Euphrates is stopped repeatedly by dams in Turkey and Syria, the water is used for irrigation and at the same time the decay is used to generate electricity. The dam is a strategic element and is therefore heavily guarded. You can drive over, but stopping to take pictures is prohibited. Here I get a phonecall from my parents. Wow, that means that there is something really happening. My parents are not of the kind who want to hear me every day ... I am told that the situation in Syria is deteriorating day by day. And the opinion of foreign affairs has changed from "Syria can be visited, but caution is advised" to "unnecessary travels to Syria are strongly discouraged" ... and all of the 30 compatriots who are still in Syria are advised to leave the country while there are still commercial flights ... A side note, there are at least 31 Belgians, because I was not registered at foreign affairs ... But the message is clear. I decide at that moment, that my detour through Aleppo will be cancelled and I the next two days I go straight to the border at Jarabulus.
After this phone call I jump back on the bike, heading towards my stop for the day, namely Qalat Jabar. I take a short break at the banks of the Euphrates for a quick dip in cold water and then climb to the castle. I have some Syrian pounds to spend, so after a visit to the castle, a cool shower, washing clothes, I eat a huge piece of grilled fish with chips and a beer.
After breakfast I continue towards Jarabulus and Turkey. Now I drive roughly along the eastern bank of the Euphrates to the north. I follow the direction of Jarniyah through the fields and bend down towards Manbij. I am looking for a tent site on the banks of the Euphrates, but this is not so easy. Everywhere live people and there is hardly free piece of land. Finally I sit down somewhere. I decide first to prepare my meal and if I am still not driven away I'll put up my tent. My pasta was not cooked or a passing guy invited me to his home. First he going home alone to announce my arrival. When he comes back he has extra long pants with him. I tell him that it may be a little bit chilly, but that I'm used to it, so no need for long pants. It was however necessary to protect the sensitive eyes of the ladies. Come on, pants on and a real roof for the night. The discussion was really difficult here, my Arabic was clearly better than their English and that says a lot ... I go to bed early.
In I get another phone call from my parents, it is really serious, ... I confirm that I am ready to go, it reassures them. Personally I don't feel unsafe at any moment, northern Syria is still quiet and free from demonstrations. I drive in record time to Manbij, eat my last Syrian Shoarma and drive further to Jarabulus. This last piece I am accompanied by two young guys on a motorcycle. I go as fast as possible, and feel just like a cyclist in the tour of Syria.
I reach the border in the early afternoon. Soon a reassuring phone call home that I am at the border and will cross in a fez moment. I can do my companions a favor with my Syrian SIM card on which are still a few Syrian pounds. I don't need it anymore, so why not ...
I cross the Syrian border without any problems, after paying the normal fee. Syria and also Jordan ask a fee for leaving the country ... any reason is good to generate revenue huh ... When I arrive at the Turkish border, I am told that I couldn't enter the country because they can not give me a visa. Coincidentally, they don't have at the border of Jarabulus the necessary stamps ... Discussing does not help, I have go back to Syria. Crossing a border in this region is clearly not easy ... we are spoiled in Europe. There is nothing else to do ... back ... again a stamp to be allowed into Syria. Luckily I had a reentry visa for Syria, that allows me to enter the country several times originally with the intention to go via Lebanon, otherwise I may need to buy a new visa. The guard of Syria has been kind to me and calls a taxi.
Of course it takes all time and hours after I've arrived at the border, I'm finally in a taxi to Azaz in Syria. My phone does not work anymore, and I think it's better not to worry anyone unnecessarily, there is actually nothing wrong. The taxi driver knows the way to Azaz as well as I, ... so not ... He has clearly miss calculated the agreed price. It's an nice guy and I decide to give him an extra tip for the trip. In Azaz we find in hotel after some effort, it is getting dark now. I get the hotel owner also convinced to give me room, it is unclear to me why he was not so likely to give me a room, but anyway ... half an hour later I'm in my room. I go to bed fast to get up early to leave towards the border. Of course the fee for leaving the country has to be paid again ... Through a minefield to the Turkish border post ... paying for the visa in Turkey ... At the end in the morning of the 27th of April I am the first who cross the border with Turkey, and this is also the Syrian part of my bikejourney.
Moker (sledgehammer)
(Pictures you can find in my picassa album and in the dutch version)
If the highlights of my cycling trip are the people I may meet, then the lows are the moments of saying goodbye. Every time that you meet great people there always comes a moment the I have to say goodbye as the tour goes towards Belgium. So this is also true for Jordan.
I have been fortunate to meet Najah in Jordan. We were both waiting for someone at the airport in Amman. She waiting for her mother and I for the Kwink. We were both in a good mood.
Sometimes you meet people and you know immediatly you would like each other. This was such a moment. Only in the middle east, speaking to a woman is not so evident. She was there with her family and at one point they are all staring at me and gossiping ... I was clearly the subject ... Ppfff, habbits in the Middle East ... it better to talk to her. Najah is a divorced mother of three children and teaches at the university of Irbid, which is immediately noticeable is her smile and optimism. Her mother and Kwink are arriving ... we decide to stay in touch. Maybe after my bicycle adventure in Jordan.
On the way to Amman, I invite her for an evening out with three of us, but unfortunately it does not fit for her. The day that Kwink leaves I meet her at the evening in downtown Amman. Meanwhile, it is almost my home town and she had never been there. So I was able to guide her the world upside down, if you're having fun time flies, even now. She invites me for a homemade mansaf, something I can not resist. Food and in good company ... here are my weaknesses. I learn from her a little more about life in the Middle East. And I also immediately see and feel her frustrations and fears as a woman in the middle east. Needless to say, that moves me. I had already few conversations with men and was always critical at this point, role of the women in their culture. For the men it was always easy to explain it to me ... of course ... It is easy to talk from their standpoint. Talking to Najah I feel at some point even a little guilty when I'm very enthousiastic about my experiences ... my cycling trip, freedom, float on the Dead Sea, ... all things that she as a woman in the Middle East can only dream of. I must then remember a discussion I've ever had with my sister on this subject. Discussions within the family Schildermans can be severe and it was such one ... Nele I think you were right at that time, maybe a little late, but now I can say that you were right.
The mansaf tastes delicious ... eating with the hands it is not a real succes, fortunately, there are no pictures of it .... more regrettable is that there are also no pictures of the belly dancing that Najah and her cousin do for me. Sisha smoking after dinner and dancing. The afternoon could not finish better.
The next day I would go to the border. Najah provides me with a whole load of supplies for my journey through Syria. She worries. the whole situation in Syria at that time is also rather violent, but I do not want to hear it, I have a bicycle trip to accomplish. Najah insists that she bringt me the next morning to the border. She goes every morning to Irbid for her work and the children go to school there. I don't protest, not even like ... postponement of a painful farewell.
That morning they pick me up at my hotel. Bike and luggage in the car. No effort too much to bring me to the border. In Belgium, you are fined if you eat a sandwich behind while driving, Najah manages it to prepare a whole breakfast behind the wheel, and sometimes it gives hilarious moments, it's a car ride not for people suffering their haert.
Farewell at the border for the first time. but as already known ... not for the last time. I drive on the Jordanian border in the pouring rain. At the first checkpoint of Syria I'm invited to sit in the building. I sit down on a bed, between the machine guns and smoke Sisha with the border guards ... situation in Syria is of course safe, not a cloud in the sky ... that's the story they tell me. The media don't tell the truth is the continuation of their story. When the rain stops, I continu to the third and final checkpoint before I'll be in Syria. I don't have to tell how great was my surprise when I am told that I could not go into Syria because of my own safety. There must be something serious happened between checkpoint 1 and 3.
Actually I do not even mind having to go back to Jordan. Waiting for my ride back to Amman I check if there are other possibilities to go from Jordan to Turkey, there are not real ones. I am still waiting on a promised confirmation from Israel for a ferry to Turkey. The confirmation of the Syrian Ministry of Tourism that there is no problem to enter the country is much faster.
It's nice to be welcomed by Najah and her children: Zain, and Aboud Hamoud. I show them the Rainbow Street in Amman. The oldest street in Amman which is beautifully renovated and now pretty much defines the trendy neighborhood of Amman.
I'll stay two more days in Amman ... training on the sportfields of Amman , saying farewell to Saad, a glass of Freshness in the cafe RSCN (Royal Society of the Conservation of Nature) with Najah ... I begin to feel at home in Amman.
Another move of a bike and luggage to the border with Syria. But now saying goodbye is even much harder. I'm glad I got to know Najah. I have a lot to learn from her. I admire especially her optimism and her ability to put things into perspective and in addition she is also a beautiful appearance.
This time the transition of the border is more formally, no sisha and wild tales of border guards ... but it is a success. I arrived in Syria. I still keep in touch with Najah. Two days after my departure, she has a heavy traffic accident. Slipping of the car as a result of oil on the road. Car a few times over the head. I know of the accident in Syria, but only very occasionally get news. My whole time in Syria, I am more concerned about her condition, then about the situation in Syria. That makes that in Syria for the first time during my trave I felt powerless and alone, Moker meets Rafke a few times in the Syrian desert. Najah is currently still recovering. She will recover, that is for sure, but it will take time. I consider to visit her from Turkey, that's the least I can do and she can use any support. I wish her all the very best.
Moker (sledgehammer)
Syria
Syria was probably the country which I would like to see the most of all the countries on my travel precisely because the contrast between the reputation the country has always had and what you hear from eyewitnesses about the country ... In that respect, the 'status' of Syria is very similar to that of Iran, indeed even one of the countries high on my list! The reputation is that of a Muslim state, embroiled in deep conflict with Israel ... much more remains to be known, but this is enough for most to put the country in the box 'to avoid' . If you speak people who have been, you always hear two things: an overwhelming hospitality and a rich historical past.
The moment I have visited Syria is perhaps a historical moment, given the current events that afflict the country. Despite these events, I have yet to experience the famous Syrian hospitality. And also I can confirm that the country has a priceless collection of historic buildings and entire cities. Damascus alone is worth a visit to Syria.
The reputation of the country. The country is at war with Israel, that is absolutely true. In any case a cold war. The whole question of the Middle East is obviously very complicated, but you can not deny that some 60 years ago, an area with a surface equal to 2 / 3 that of Belgium was occupied by a new state and the indigenous population is asked to leave, freedom of choice was not much there. It is obvious that the immediate neighbors Syria and Jordan are the countries who encounter most problems with this new situation. Jordan has over the years willy nilly adapted at the new situation, Syria has not yet done. So it is true that Syria still lives on hostile terms with Israel, but it actually has no direct concequenties for life in Syria.
Syria a Muslim State. It's not quite right. It is obviously a predominantly Muslim country, but there is freedom of religion and a significant minority of Christians are living in Syria in harmony with the Islamists. There is a Christian district in Damascus. Once in the Christion district, it's completely different with the rest of the city. Costumes of the women, churches instead of mosques. Even in small villages in the countryside you see the occasional church. So yes, the religion is predominantly Islamic, but the state is not ruled by religion. And yes, religion is much more important in Syria, more generally, in the Middle East than with us, but this is not just for Muslims but also Christians. To our current standards, it all seems a bit exaggerated.
What makes it so that Syria is in the news? I have tried to find out as far as possible during my 10 days in the country. It's too short to know the whole truth, but at least I have some impressions. It is not always so simple if only that I do not speak Arabic. But I have learned a few things. Syria is ruled by President Bashar al-Assad, as you travel through the country you can not miss his photos.
And even on pictures of him he looks like not friendly. It's promising. Every seven years there are presidential elections, but the last time there was surprisingly no rival. The Syrian army is actually a joke when you compare it with the powerful neighbor Israel. If you are as a country at war live with your neighbor than I would make sure that your military system keep pace with that of the enemy. This is clearly not the case and gives me the feeling that the army is there above all to keep its own people under control. What is very good in Syria and also in Jordan is the intelligence service. The intelligence services in these countries are among the best in the world in terms of information gathering, this is obviously at the expense of some privacy. Moreover, Syria retains an extensive network of police forces. There would have been 7 different secret police forces. These are of course no official data, so don't blame me when it where 5 or 9 but what I experienced it myself is that everyone, usually not in uniform can ask for your passport. And uniform or not it was me quickly clear that they were all armed ... I always asked simply whether they were police when they asked my passport and then they had to confirm. The entire state system is made to keep the population under control, added to that, the economy is heavily corrupt. You can create your own business, as long as you're not big, there is no problem, but if you come in the wake of the 'big' players, political friends of the top, you will encounter every possible opponent until you get back in your line. The president and his followers are Alawite, a minority in Syria. In order to ensure its control over the people, there is also the "emergency law". Supposedly because of terrorist threats, the police can arrest and detend everyone without any form of process. There would exist many underground prisons in Syria, where people are imprisoned and tortured. The cause, or one of the causes of the current unrest is the arrest of a dozen young people (teenagers). As a result of the earlier events in Egypt, they called for freedom in the street of Deraa. The kids were arrested early this year and immediately imprisoned. Under pressure from the population they are released but rarara ... They had lost their fingernails. I do not know what the rest what was done with them, but it may not have been nice. Since then, the bomb in Syria began to burst. Typically in this region is that the people come together on Friday for Friday prayers, like our (previous) Sunday service. Then there is a sermon, and after that, when the people are all together, the protest against the government and the call for freedom are the most obvious. The recent speeches of the president didn't have much of result, the trust has long been harmed, he completely lost his authority. I have only seen a few protests here and there and some burning tires.
I have them for my own safety also avoided. What I really have experienced is the huge presence of police and army. At the most crazy and unexpected moments you are asked where you are going or you are said that you better move on. The army has installed barricades on every road sometimes clearly visible, sometimes completely camouflaged, so that you only see them when you passed them, an entire battalion lying hidden in the shoulder. All with machine guns at the ready, bayonet on the rifle, snipers in the shoulders and on the roofs ... quite impressive when you pass on your bike. It is the first time I've really felt an aversion to the military. Syria's army is therefore only against its own people, and I do not understand that as a major power they do not revolt against the leadership. If they continue in this way, these men will be hated enormously by there own people in the future?? I can not say I've had any unsafe feeling during my trip, but I had a constant feeling of unease over me, it just felt not comfortable. The feeling of freedom is a tremendous luxury we have in Europe. I can not do anything else than wishing the people in Syria every success in their struggle for more freedom and civil rights. If there is a people that it deserves, then they will.
After my second attempt I drive into Syria via the motorway. Cycling on the hard shoulder is permitted and is a good road, were it not that it is just more fun with the bike onsmaller roads. I turn off the first exit towards Deal, where I will follow the old route to Damascus. I do not have Syrian money either, so what remained first is changing Jordanian Dinar for Syrian pounds. In Deal, the first one I met helped me immediately further. A little later I'm in the shop of Koutieba, drink a cola and explain what my plans are. It's Thursday afternoon and Koutieba rather not like me to be in Damascus on Friday morning. By the way we come to the conclusion that I have not seen Bosra, not far from him and that is a must. We soon share a common frustration ... not speaking the others language . I intend that I am going to learn Arabic. Promises ... Meanwhile, Ameen joined us, an English teacher, that makes the conversation a lot easier, also Koutieba's father joined us in the shop. My schedule for that day is made. Koetieba, Ameen and I leave with the car to Bosra to visit the old site .... No way I pay something as a guest. Jordan and Syria, two neighbors, but once you cross the border you feel that you are entering a different country ... if it was only by the absolute absence of motorcycles in Jordan and the abundance of them in Syria. It also immediately makes the streets much more exuberant. The old site of Bosra is great and in an unimaginable good state.
After our trip one hour of sleep in the cool living room of Koutieba's home on the cushions, typically in a square along the walls, on the carpet. What a luxery such an afternoon nap. If I learn anything this year it is enjoying the quiet moments I get. Freshen up and then I am given the choice, another walk before dinner or a trip on the motor with Koutieba through Deal ... hahaha, choice is quickly made. A little later I'm sitting on the backseat of the motorcycle and cruising through Deal. Personally, I would speed much faster, but as a passenger I can find nothing wrong in Koutieba's quiet ride. Another striking difference with Jordan is the street life. In Jordan, I got used to almost empty streets at night, or just people who were going from one to another place. Not so in Syria. Here, life is much more on the streets. People sitting around fires to grill meat, drink tea together, sitting in front of their houses just to gossip, ... it gives a more vivid and exuberant street than I was used to until now.
Back home there is a typical Syrian meal. Humus, foul, babaganousch, fresh salads, yogurt and bread. And a glass of Ayran to complete. The food in the Middle East is quite different from our food, but definitely recommended. When they asked me at dinner what would be great business that could score in Europe, I answer that a good restaurant with typical and good food from this region could be a hit in Europe where people are always looking for a unique and excellent restaurant. What we know in Europe are the kebab and shawarma restaurants, but believe me, what you will eat here is a thousand times better than what we are accustomed.
Another idea that I had, and probably others with me, is that Syria is one big desert. False, when I was driving through Deraa, indeed the region quite recently in the news, I'm surprised by the green spaces, filled with grain, fruit and vegetables. Also the northern region around the Euphrates, I'll later discover, is a green oasis. The grain in Syria appears to be of an exceptional quality and apparently, some Italian pasta can only be made with flour from Syrian. It is sometimes a crazy sight if you pass on the bike these big machines for grain cutting parked in the middle of the desert, often you pass a little further a green landscape.
Koutieba the evening is filled with talking, with the help of Ameen it is possible to talk about more than just about: "where I come from", "where I go", "whether I'm married" and "no, how is that possible?", "How old I have already got", "33 years, and still not married? " .... after a while you start to doubt yourself ... And there is much more to tell when people from 2 different cultures meet. There are many more questions than just the first encounter questions ... time flies that evening.
The next day, Friday, and perhaps a decisive day for Syria. The entire weekend is also a key moment. Friday is the day anyway where people gather at the mosque, so this would again give a violent situation. Also Sunday is an important day, Syria celebrates than its independence from France. I hear that this weekend could be a turning point, the situation can calm down and the Syrians will find a peaceful solution or the country expires in a bloody civil war. The family wants me not to leave in the morning for Damascus. It is better to wait until around noon and hear how the situation develops before I crawl on the bike. I wisely follow their counsel. I love adventure, but I'm not looking for problems
By noon, the country still seems quiet. People are ready for the noon prayer at 13 PM, but no mass movement, I get on the bike ... towards Damascus a little 100 km.
Not immediately, but after a while it is very clear ... I drive over an almost empty road to Damascus, through green fields, olive groves, nearly empty villages, barren stretches of sand and always the snowy hills of Lebanon in my view. As a cyclist an empty road would be a relief, but now it feels weird ... the only constant on the road to Damascus, the military checkpoints. Tanks, snipers, barricades, machine guns with bayonet, ... I see it all on my road to Damascus. At 14 PM, passing a few villages, I see on a parallel road a few parades and burning tires in the distance ... The moment of truth?
I arrive in Damascus, and here it is quiet, like an ordinary Friday (compare with our Sunday). Arriving in Damascus is very nice. It feels like a mix of Paris and Berlin. The broad avenues of Berlin and the cozy atmosphere of some neighborhoods in Paris. Yellow taxis, all of those old French bikes, trees along the avenues. This city is in no way comparable to Amman in Jordan. This is a city with which you immediately fall in love. And I'm still in the suburbs ... wait until I see the true center.
I ride further into the center and see in front of me pickup with three Westerners in the back of the truck. At a crossroads, I ask them for a good and not too expensive hotel, but their answer disappears in the accelerating traffic.
A few intersections later, near the acces of the gigantic indoor souk of Damascus, I see them again. They are waiting for me and ask me if I like to drink a beer with them. Is this a question. I've just met Manu, Steffi and Jesse. Manu and Steffi, a Swiss couple, living in a house in the old city of Damascus. I walk with them to their home through the covered souk, and the narrow alleys ... This city is one of the oldest cities, with the longest continuous Occupancy in the world ... and it's exactly that atmosphere that lives here. When I enter their house, I can only say 'wow' ... forget all the expensive villas and lofts ... these houses are just wonderful (but also expensive). Damascus is in that way a strange city, food costs nearly next to nothing but the houses are really expensive, caused by the immigration of rich Iraqees after the last Iraq war. A little later I am on top of their roof and look out over the old city of Damascus with the old Mosque as an eye catcher. A Syrian beer makes the picture complete.
"You can sleep here with us" ... "Yes, would be a pleasure" ... "We can make a room free for you" ... "No need, I do not want to bother, I'll sleep on the roof '... And so happened that the rooftop garden is my exclusive bedroom for the next three nights. Now I understand what people mean when they say that I'm a lucky bastard.
Unfortunately, I got sick that night. The food can not be the reason, I haven't eaten anything special the day before, the combination of effort, sun, and a fez beers. I suspected it already for some time and it is always been reconfirmed, I just can not support any beer anymore ... Damn ... not good for a Belgian guy.
Most of the first day I spend in bed, in the afternoon I explore the city a little bit. Jeremy and Maarten maintain our 'London-Weekend'-tradition. Unfortunately I can not be there this time, there are sacrifices to make ... But we succeed in a skype reunion. The quality of the line is weak and I feel also weak, but it is still great fun to hear the two comrades, next time I am back in, men.
A day later and feeling better again, I explore the city by bike. Damascus is situated at the foot of a mountain, and that invites to climb up the hill. Through the narrow streets in the suburbs I find my way up. These suburbs are not to compare of suburbs of other large cities, where you sometimes do not really feel comfortable. Its not in Damascus ... narrow streets, cobblestones, craft shops and friendly, helpful people. The higher I go, the steeper the narrow roads and finally I have to get off the bike because it is really impossible to cycle up anymore and a bit further I'm carrying my bike upstairs. Once up, I have a beautiful view over the city ... it's not the top of the mountain, who in Syria has the ultimate overview, exactly ... the army. The top of the mountain is military domain and inaccessible for normal people.
I'm going down via the road that brings me via the north to downtown Damascus. I'm looking for a Syrian SIM card. My Jordanian number does not work anymore, my account balance reached zero. Two days ago I heared from Najah that she was involved in an heavy car accident, and since then I have not heard from her, I am worried. As a foreigner getting a Syrian SIM card is not so evident, and later I also discovered that once a SIM card, using the phone is not always obvious. The Syrian government shuts down the phone traffic any moment they like. My search is successful, but it will take some time before I hear any news from Najah. I continue to explore the town, visit the Azm Palace, walk through the Souk and the surrounding streets ...
In the evening the three of us eat in the center. We walk through the old city, alongside the river that crosses the city, to the Christian district for an aperitif and a Sisha. Here you can sit on the terrace and order a beer or a glass of wine, I stuck on cola at the moment. On the way we are approached by two local beauties to ask them whether we like to be on a picture with them ... That this should happen to me. I ask Steffi and Manu if this happens regulary, it's for them also the first time.
The food was again a hit. Today is Sunday. The president has kept his speech. The reactions seems to be neutral. There are meetings have been held in Douma and there is a procession toward Damascus. The security forces remain calm and for the change they didn't fire on the demonstrators. The feared escalation of violence remains, at least for that weekend off. Would it be possible that the situation in Syria calmes down? Manu and I visit a Hammam so that I can get on the bike again next day, scrubbed clean.
I will drive from Damascus direction Douma. I'm not chosing the difficult cities, I try to avoid the motorway, that is why I pass Douma. And actually I want to avoid the most violently city in the country, namely Homs. From Douma I go direction Quaranteyn and further through Deir Mar Mussa, a monastery in the mountains. At the last moment before I left Damascus, I got this tip from Steffi. It would certainly be worth a visit.
The landscape is changing. The region of Douma is a dirty, dusty industrial region, along the road are all steel and concrete workshops. Dust and exhaust determine the air quality here. Once I get passed Douma, I'm in the desert. Heat, drought and dust ... All day I drive through a sandy plain on which there is the whole time a dust mist.
It is here that I sit dozn, tired and exhausted, at an abandoned shed. Recover a little bit and eat a piece of fruit. Not 5 minutes later, a motorcycle stops next to me ... whence comes it so suddenly ...? I think it is just a curious passer-by ... and tired as I am, this is not what I'm waiting for at this moment. He asks me where I go and tells me which way I have to go. Tired and not in the mood for a conversation I let him understand that I know the way and just want to rest ... he answers that I could better leave. My mind is not getting any better, and I'm thinking about a clear response which would let him feel that I am not in the mood to be ordered, when he turns his back and I see his gun in his belt. The notorious security service. At this moment I realise that here in this country they always keep an eye on you, even if you think you're alone on the road in the desert ... I don't think anymore about refusing him and follow the advice of my 'friend' and get back on the bike ... Up towards Deir Mar Mussa.
The monastery is in the mountains, and my fears are confirmed. The last kilometers are uphill ... these are slow and endless kilometers. Eventually I reach my destination and there is an endless stairs, carved into the rocks, to the monastery waiting for me. I lock the bike at the foot of the hill. I cannot else than carrying the bags upstairs ... I maybe travel compact, when I have to carry everything at once, it's damned heavy and the stairs make it even worse. Each curve in the stone steps is a goal to reach and where I take a break. When I'm halfway through and I get offered help, my pride has disappeared so far that I don't think anymore about refusing the assistance. I am secretly pleased when I see one of my two helpers carrying only one of my four bags and struggling to get upstairs.
The monastery at the top is a nice reward for the pilgrimage to get there. I get a bed in a cave. Because it is quiet I have the whole room just for me. A fresh shower washes off the sweat, dirt and tiredness. I'm ready to explore this building. Through a door in the rocks, no more than one meter high, I can get in the monastery itself. Here I find a church, a library in the rocks, and a courtyard with a splendid view over the valley. Higher up is second monastery on which I have a beautiful view, but to which guests have no access.
The stay in the monastery is free of charge, but a free financial contribution or help in the the monastry is highly appreciated. I decide take the dish wash on my account. I would also like helping with the still ongoing building process, but fot that I will return and then for a slightly longer time. At 19 PM there is a reflective service, during which texts are read from the Bible and songs are sung. The atmosphere is cozy and warm. The language is Arabic, but it is indeed a Christian monastery, for us almost a Contradiction in terms, here this is the most normal thing in the world. The service lasts for 2 hours and for me, as a tired cyclist the perfect opportunity to relax. I do not believe, but I take this opportunity to light a candle for Najah, under the motto "if it doesn't help, anyway it wouldn't hurt". Earlier today I got her sister at the phone and heard she is in a bad state and is sleeping all day. So she can use all the help.
After the food is served and we eat all together and I learn to know the people who live in and visit this monastry. A strange mix of all different people. A few young students in Arabic language, an English lady of middle age, a Venezuelan trying to find his luck in the Middle East, Rama a young woman from Damascus that spend a lot of her time here, a French diplomat who now and then comes to this place to find rest and peace ... I find it all pretty, but I have also to say that with my sober look at faith and religion, I miss the feeling to fully live and feel this way of live. For me it's something too floaty and exaggerated. Time for the night ... Meanwhile very tired I am glad I can go to my cave. As soon as I hit the pillow I'm gone for a long and quiet night ... The morning like I planned I do the dishes, just help to prepare for lunch and than leave on the bike to my next monastery.
Indeed, my next monastery. Hilda, the English lady who stayed also in Deir March Mussa, told me that a little further, towards Palmyra there is another monastry what is also worth a visit. The monastery of Deir Mar Elian is situated next to the town of Al Quarytayn. Since I am left a bit late today it will be a slightly shorter day, but still cycling in the desert is already challenging enough. The road ahead is endless, it's cloudy and that makes the day much more bearable than the day before. If you assume the day will be easy, prepare you for the opposite. Like today. I almost thought I arrived when I decided to stay for a while with a family that makes tiles.
When I asked them the way to a nearby restaurant, there is no way that I would go to a restaurant, I'll eat with them and then I can go further to the monastery. The concept of hunger is clearly different for them as for me, it lasts and lasts before there is any food, and I can now eat the cushions. I let them know that I'am really leaving now. I'm tired and hungry, not a condition that has to last for too long otherwise my mind get confused, I have had the experience already what this situation does with my mood, it's best to avoid. A few minutes later there is food on the table. Bread, olives, cheese and stuffed eggplant. Nice, but one important lesson I learned. If you're hungry, find a restaurant. You have your food faster and you can order a genteel meat dish. Despite my vegetarian past, after one day cycling I can not fill my stomach with a few olives, a piece of bread and some vegetables. Then at least one sheep or a chicken has to be grilled. Remember that my stomach is get used to a dish of 20 meatballs. Meanwhile, it begins to get dark and I am still looking for my monastery. In my hurry I drive kilometers too far, and the fatigue hits me hard. Eventually, a truck drive past, with a family inside. The father shows me the way, and I should hold myself to the truck until we get there, to the great amusement of the rest of the family. By the time we get there I can also tell them what I do as a Belgian in Syria at this time and then even on a bike. I arrive at the monastry together with Father Jacques and Jens and feel welcome immediately. Jacaues and John speak French and English and I'm delighted that ze can chat that evening in a common language.
After a refreshing night I leave early in the morning towards Palmyra. I will ride all day through the desert. I drive first to Qasr Al Hair Al Gharbi a remnant of an old desert castle. In the middle of the desert, close to a well an some grass I find the remains of the once immense edifice.
I encounter four Syrians who've just eaten their lunch. When I tell them I go through the desert Tiyas, they declare me crazy and I see them thinking I had a stroke of the Sun.
I eat my lunch in the shade of a building in the green, surrounded by the sandy and stony plains. Cool down a little bit an half an hour of recovery before hitting the road again. The electrical wires will be my guide through the this desert for the coming 20 km.
First I follow a dirt track and the electrical wires, but after a few kilometers there remain only the electrical wires and I cross every now and then a dirt track.
Ninety minutes later I see in the distance a flock of sheep on some sparse grass and a little further away two bedouin tents. I'll ask them the way, to have a confirmation that I'm still following the right direction. A cyclist in the desert ... it is clear that they do not see it every day passing by. Of course I have to sit in the tent and I get tea, dates and yogurt offered.
The conversation is difficult. The men are busy with cleaning mushrooms and filling a big pot with them. Indeed mushrooms in the desert, I had never expected. And it looks damn good. The expectation is that I stay for the lunch, but this time I refuse, I really need my time, I want to be tonight in Palmyra.
I continue my trip the pylons and not much later the town looms Tiyas and I can follow the tarred road further towards Palmyra. Late in the afternoon and I still have at least 60 km to go. I ride under a scorching sun throughout a large sandbox with here and there a village and supprisingly enough, here and there a green field.
If 150 km is on my counter I stand on the hill, ready to descend to Palmyra. There is clearly a lack of tourists in the town that lives on tourism. They come up the hill to offer me a stay. A cheap night in a bedoin tent is my choice. I stay at 100 meters from the historic site. After rinsing of the sand and dirt I eat a great Mansaf. I'm ready for the night.
The next day I walk around the Roman site. Another huge collection of old buildings, remnants of pillars, an amphitheater, temples, ancient Roman roads, ... it's just unbelievable what you find in this region from ancient times.
After one day I have enough of Palmyra. I want to move on and back on the bike. My time in Syria is limited, visa for 15 days and the messages I'm receiving here and there are not so encouraging.
My second morning in the bedoïn tent I am woken by the rain. Rain in the desert ... I set my departure until after the rain. Another day through the desert. It may sound boring, but the desert has something special, it is an amazing landscape and I can enjoy it. I also enjoy the moments I just sit on the bike, music in my ears, and pedalling ... And so I go hours and hours, today against the wind ... It's a struggle. The weather remains dark and unpredictable throughout the day. When I am in the last town for that day, As Sukhnah, I get the council not to travel at night because of armed groups which could be active at night ... An hour later in the middle of the desert, there is a fierce wind and the first big drops begin to fall. It is 18 PM and I decide right away to set up my tent. By the time I've actually unpacked my tent, the rain is pouring and there's a fierce storm raised. I need all my outdoor experience to put up my tent properly. Moments later I'm sitting in my tent, covered with mud, waiting when the rain stops. I ain't seen nothing yet. It clears up and I use this occasion to properly secure the tent and preparing food. After dinner and have cleaned up everything I crawl into my sleeping bag. An hour or so later I wake up from light flashes. First I think that it is caused by the movement of my outer tent, but when I look outside I see the sky above me is still completely open, but further away it is all pitch black and I see one lightning bolt after another come down. I am not on my ease. A half hour later the sky above me also changed into black ... and now the lightnings come closer very fast. A tent in a desert plain, I do not believe that it is the best choice is to seek protection against these lightnings. It is currently still very dry. I decide that the best to do is leaving my tent and I lay down into a ditch a little further, to avoid to be the highest point in the landscape. When it starts to rain again I choose for my tent. I lie awake another hour scared and hoping that each successive lightning is also just around the tent ... I wonder where those armed groups are when you need them ... Eventually stops the storm, or am I so tired ... I do not know what was first ... in any case I fall asleep and when I shortly wake up a few hours later everything is quiet again. The next morning I get up under a blazing sun. The desert, it can be fascinating.
Back on the bike towards Rusafa, yet another ruin in the desert and the end of this day trip. This day is nice ... I enjoy the bike, fighting the wind ... iPod and pedalling. When I am almost in Rusafa a group of tea-drinking men invites me for tea, and soon I have also an invitation for the night. The previous night still fresh in memory, I doubt not too long for this second invitation. I leave the panniers at my hosts house and continue a few kilometers on the bike to the ruin of Rusafa. Another impressive building. Particularly striking are the vast underground cellars that were used previously as a water reservoirs for the people of the fortified city.
Back to my family I get offered a bucket of water water to wash myself in the living room. Quick cleaning the floor afterwards and the bathroom ik switched again into a living room. The whole family is together, this time also the wife and daughters. That's the first time in Syria that men and woman are sitting together. Normally everything is quite strictly separated. The conversation does not go as easy, again because of that damn language barrier, the girls speak a little English, but that's really a little bit. And my knowledge of Arabic is in recent weeks also only little increased. If later in the evening the time is there for taking some pictures, then suddenly the paternal protectionism of his wife and daughters comes back. Photos are taken only from men. Well ... the daughters clearly prefer otherwise, and so I am ... but the host decides ... Time flies, and soon it's time to sleep.
Approaching the border with Turkey. I drive today to Qalat Jabar, the remains of an old ruined fortress that lies on the banks of the Euphrates. I drive by Ath Thawrah, a pleasant town where I do want to stay overnight. At the entrance of the city a gang of youths accompagnies me with their bikes and loud horns. At least I don't have to ask for space on the road. They bring me to the only hotel in the city, but that appears to be full. It is noon and the owner offers me a meal, then at least I didn't drove not for nothing to his hotel.
After lunch I cross the Euphrates via the enormous dam. The water of the Euphrates is stopped repeatedly by dams in Turkey and Syria, the water is used for irrigation and at the same time the decay is used to generate electricity. The dam is a strategic element and is therefore heavily guarded. You can drive over, but stopping to take pictures is prohibited. Here I get a phonecall from my parents. Wow, that means that there is something really happening. My parents are not of the kind who want to hear me every day ... I am told that the situation in Syria is deteriorating day by day. And the opinion of foreign affairs has changed from "Syria can be visited, but caution is advised" to "unnecessary travels to Syria are strongly discouraged" ... and all of the 30 compatriots who are still in Syria are advised to leave the country while there are still commercial flights ... A side note, there are at least 31 Belgians, because I was not registered at foreign affairs ... But the message is clear. I decide at that moment, that my detour through Aleppo will be cancelled and I the next two days I go straight to the border at Jarabulus.
After this phone call I jump back on the bike, heading towards my stop for the day, namely Qalat Jabar. I take a short break at the banks of the Euphrates for a quick dip in cold water and then climb to the castle. I have some Syrian pounds to spend, so after a visit to the castle, a cool shower, washing clothes, I eat a huge piece of grilled fish with chips and a beer.
After breakfast I continue towards Jarabulus and Turkey. Now I drive roughly along the eastern bank of the Euphrates to the north. I follow the direction of Jarniyah through the fields and bend down towards Manbij. I am looking for a tent site on the banks of the Euphrates, but this is not so easy. Everywhere live people and there is hardly free piece of land. Finally I sit down somewhere. I decide first to prepare my meal and if I am still not driven away I'll put up my tent. My pasta was not cooked or a passing guy invited me to his home. First he going home alone to announce my arrival. When he comes back he has extra long pants with him. I tell him that it may be a little bit chilly, but that I'm used to it, so no need for long pants. It was however necessary to protect the sensitive eyes of the ladies. Come on, pants on and a real roof for the night. The discussion was really difficult here, my Arabic was clearly better than their English and that says a lot ... I go to bed early.
In I get another phone call from my parents, it is really serious, ... I confirm that I am ready to go, it reassures them. Personally I don't feel unsafe at any moment, northern Syria is still quiet and free from demonstrations. I drive in record time to Manbij, eat my last Syrian Shoarma and drive further to Jarabulus. This last piece I am accompanied by two young guys on a motorcycle. I go as fast as possible, and feel just like a cyclist in the tour of Syria.
I reach the border in the early afternoon. Soon a reassuring phone call home that I am at the border and will cross in a fez moment. I can do my companions a favor with my Syrian SIM card on which are still a few Syrian pounds. I don't need it anymore, so why not ...
I cross the Syrian border without any problems, after paying the normal fee. Syria and also Jordan ask a fee for leaving the country ... any reason is good to generate revenue huh ... When I arrive at the Turkish border, I am told that I couldn't enter the country because they can not give me a visa. Coincidentally, they don't have at the border of Jarabulus the necessary stamps ... Discussing does not help, I have go back to Syria. Crossing a border in this region is clearly not easy ... we are spoiled in Europe. There is nothing else to do ... back ... again a stamp to be allowed into Syria. Luckily I had a reentry visa for Syria, that allows me to enter the country several times originally with the intention to go via Lebanon, otherwise I may need to buy a new visa. The guard of Syria has been kind to me and calls a taxi.
Of course it takes all time and hours after I've arrived at the border, I'm finally in a taxi to Azaz in Syria. My phone does not work anymore, and I think it's better not to worry anyone unnecessarily, there is actually nothing wrong. The taxi driver knows the way to Azaz as well as I, ... so not ... He has clearly miss calculated the agreed price. It's an nice guy and I decide to give him an extra tip for the trip. In Azaz we find in hotel after some effort, it is getting dark now. I get the hotel owner also convinced to give me room, it is unclear to me why he was not so likely to give me a room, but anyway ... half an hour later I'm in my room. I go to bed fast to get up early to leave towards the border. Of course the fee for leaving the country has to be paid again ... Through a minefield to the Turkish border post ... paying for the visa in Turkey ... At the end in the morning of the 27th of April I am the first who cross the border with Turkey, and this is also the Syrian part of my bikejourney.
Moker (sledgehammer)